25 Positive Affirmations to Interrupt Overthinking in Its Tracks

If you’ve ever laid awake at 2 a.m. rethinking a conversation… welcome to the club.


Overthinking can feel like a never-ending mental loop: replaying scenarios, forecasting worst-case outcomes, or trying to control things far outside your reach. It’s exhausting—and it’s more common than you think. Studies show that women, in particular, are significantly more prone to rumination, which can contribute to heightened anxiety, insomnia, and burnout.¹

The good news? You can actually train your brain to interrupt these spirals—and affirmations are one of the gentlest ways to begin. The trick is to meet the spiral with language that grounds you, not dismisses you. These affirmations aren’t fluffy—they’re practical, emotionally intelligent reminders that help you return to calm, clarity, and choice.

Whether you keep them in your notes app, write them in your planner, or pin them to your mirror, let these 25 affirmations be your go-to pause button.


25 Affirmations to Calm Overthinking

  1. I do not need to have all the answers right now.

  2. I am allowed to rest even if things feel unresolved.

  3. A single thought does not define the full truth.

  4. I can pause before reacting. I trust myself to respond wisely.

  5. I am not behind. I am exactly where I need to be to grow.

  6. I don’t have to rehearse every outcome to be safe.

  7. I let go of what I can’t control and take ownership of what I can.

  8. It’s okay to not know what’s next.

  9. I can move forward even with uncertainty.

  10. I release the need to solve everything at once.

  11. I am safe in this moment.

  12. I am not my past. I am who I choose to become.

  13. I give myself permission to be a work in progress.

  14. I do not need perfection to be worthy.

  15. Just because I feel pressure doesn’t mean I have to obey it.

  16. I can leave space between a thought and an action.

  17. Not everything requires a response.

  18. My brain is trying to protect me—thank you, but I’ve got this.

  19. I can breathe my way back into presence.

  20. I trust myself to handle what comes.

  21. I don’t have to figure it all out today.

  22. I return to what I know is true.

  23. I don’t chase clarity—I create it one decision at a time.

  24. I am allowed to take up space without over-explaining.

  25. My peace is not up for negotiation.


Try This:

Save 3 of these affirmations that resonate most with you.

Write them in your planner, set one as a phone background, or speak them out loud during your next walk. Interrupting the mental loop with language you trust is the first step toward shifting the pattern entirely.

    1. Nolen-Hoeksema, S. (2000). The role of rumination in depressive disorders and mixed anxiety/depressive symptoms. Journal of Abnormal Psychology, 109(3), 504–511.

    2. Lyubomirsky, S., & Tkach, C. (2004). The consequences of dysphoric rumination. Emotion Regulation, 21–41.

    3. Borkovec, T.D., Ray, W.J., & Stöber, J. (1998). Worry: A cognitive phenomenon intimately linked to affective, physiological, and interpersonal behavioral processes. Cognitive Therapy and Research, 22(6), 561–576.

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